“I Dressed Like a Grandma to Go on Dates” — Rosé Opens Up About Secret Relationships and the Cost of Fame

Rosé has never confirmed a public relationship, and now fans finally understand why.

The BLACKPINK singer recently appeared on the popular U.S. podcast Call Her Daddy, where she shared an unexpectedly emotional and revealing look into how fame shaped her private life including the extreme measures she once took to avoid paparazzi.

“I Was Trying to Protect the People I Loved”

During the interview, Rosé explained that keeping her relationships private was never about secrecy for its own sake. Instead, it came from a deep fear of seeing the people closest to her hurt.

She admitted that while she has learned to endure public scrutiny herself, it feels entirely different when friends or romantic partners become targets. According to Rosé, she still struggles to trust that the media environment would truly protect those around her if she went public with a relationship.

When Love Felt Like a Cage

Reflecting on past relationships, Rosé shared that one former partner became increasingly anxious about her fame, believing they couldn’t go anywhere or do anything freely. Looking back, she wondered why that fear had weighed so heavily on them.

Ironically, she said that later relationships with even more high-profile individuals felt different. Those partners encouraged her to live more openly, often questioning why she felt she had to hold back at all.

The “Grandma Disguise” That Lasted Months

One of the most talked-about moments from the interview came when Rosé revealed how she once avoided being photographed.

At the height of her anxiety, she said she bought a short, curly black wig online and carefully studied how elderly women dressed in public. She then recreated those outfits in detail from clothing to overall posture and went on dates disguised as a grandmother.

For nearly six months, she used the disguise when visiting her partner’s home, explaining that she felt she had no other safe option. At one point, she joked that her house had an entire section dedicated to “grandma clothes.”

“Why Is This My Reality?”

When asked about her current dating life, Rosé said she is still searching for love. But the question itself clearly weighed on her.

She became emotional while explaining how every answer — yes or no — instantly turns into headlines and comment sections dissecting her identity. She questioned why being part of a K-pop group automatically means she is treated as fundamentally different from anyone else who wants to love freely.

“It’s sad,” she admitted, reflecting on how fame can quietly rewrite the most personal parts of a person’s life.

What’s Next for Rosé and BLACKPINK

Despite the heavy conversation, Rosé remains focused on her career. BLACKPINK is set to make a full-group comeback on February 27 with their new mini album DEADLINE, marking their first group release in over three years.

For fans, the interview offered something rare not an idol image, but a deeply human story about fear, love, and the hidden costs of global fame.