EXO’s Kai Shocks Viewers: “I Only Have 25 Contacts on my Phone… I Don’t Really Have Friends”

EXO’s Kai revealed an unexpectedly introverted side on the new SBS variety show Actually… But Really?! — and the internet can’t stop talking about it.

A surprising confession during a blind-date concept

The February 23 broadcast featured model Han Hye-jin meeting Tak Jae-hoon and Kai in a blind-date-style setup.

While discussing dating styles, Han Hye-jin shared that her ideal type is:

“A man who doesn’t have many friends.”

That’s when Kai made a candid confession that immediately caught everyone’s attention.

EXO’s Kai / SBS

“There are only 25 people in my contacts”

Kai said:

“I don’t really have friends. I only have 25 contacts saved on my phone.”

He added that because of this personality, he prefers a partner who doesn’t have too many social plans, revealing his calm and home-oriented lifestyle.

The contrast fans didn’t expect

Known worldwide for his powerful stage presence and charismatic performances, Kai’s quiet and minimalist personal life showed a completely different charm.

The idol, who often dominates the stage with confidence and intensity, displayed a more:

  • honest
  • shy
  • down-to-earth

side in the show, making viewers see him in a new light.

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A relatable and realistic dating style

His comment resonated with many fans who prefer:

  • small, close circles
  • low-key schedules
  • quality time over frequent outings

proving that even global superstars can have extremely simple social lives.

Kai’s unexpected honesty turned into one of the most talked-about moments of the episode — and once again showed why his real-life personality is just as captivating as his performances.